Does anyone know people who will do things they know they should not do , and when they get in trouble for it they want to blame someone else for it happening? I have found that when you try to tell a man they are making a mistake when they are saying or doing the wrong thing, and they take the I will do what I want to thing, when they get toasted because of it, they do not want to own it. I actually had someone recently blame me for something happening to him as a direct result of things he was doing. The ironic part of this is I myself had tried to warn him not to keep doing what he was doing, and he did not listen to what I was telling him. I told him he would not get away with it, and he should stop while he could. He did not heed my warnings and when his actions came back to bite him he said it was my fault. I told him he is not the first person to blame me for them getting in trouble for their mouth and he most likely would not be the last one. If people do not want to own what they say, they should not say it in the first place. I myself will own anything I ACTUALLY SAY. The kind of person that blames someone else for the troubles they caused themselves are like children on a playground trying to blame someone else for things they did to keep from being punished for doing things they knew were not allowed. So I am just wondering if anyone else has ever ran into people that wish to blame you for them getting in trouble for things they themselves caused?
It is ok though if they want to blame me, because those that truly matter to me will not believe the lies anyhow. All these people do is make themselves look worse when they try to blame someone else for things they themselves set in motion. People need to grow up and own their own actions. If you do not want to get in trouble for showing off, or acting out, or disobeying rules to a club you belong to , do not do the think you know you are not allowed to and there will be no problem.
Oh and on a side bar I just love it when people think they will side step the repercussions of their actions by wording it in a slightly veiled manner. I see right straight through that. Anyone who has ever read my first loyalty blog can see I am a master of that style of writing myself so I spot it in a second when someone else does it. lol
