I got a friend who was like a little sister to me for years. She her mom nd I used to do many things together and it was great fun. When she got grown up I started to notice changes in her, and most people would probably have ended the friendship but I see them as family. You cut people you see as family a little more slack then others. A couple years ago I loned my friend some money and then she stopped answering my calls for a time. She did infact pay me what she owed me like a year later lol. It was not that it took her so long to pay it back that annoyed me it was that she did not return my calls.
I should have learned from that not to loan her money again, but when her mom got dementia with a stroke on top of it, I could not tell my friend no when she needed money to pay the lawyer to get the power of atterney in place so she could get her mom in a care place. For a while when her mom first had the stroke I talked to my friend nearly every day. Then after i loaned her the money and told her to take her time to pay it back there was a short time she again was not returning my calls. When she got in touch with me she said she had lost her phone through a street grate at work,and it took her that long to get a new one. She also said she had my money and would get it to me soon. Not long after that I got a call from her she was on her way to the hospital( my friend has some health issues herself) I told her ok to let me know how she was after she saw the doctor. It was a couple weeks before she cxalled. Apparently she had been in the hospital for over a week. Again she said she still had my money, and I told her to take care ofd herself that I was not worried about it right now I was worried about her and her mom. I told her to get some rest and keep me informed how they were doing. That was a couple months ago and she is not answering any of the messages I hafe left her. I am worried about her and her mom. I have not once asked her for the money back, BUT it makes me mad she is not letting me know how they are doing. I told her last time she was in the hospital she should have had her bf call me and let me know how she was doing so I did not worry so much. Like i said this girl was like the little sister I always wanted and never got, but it seems she only calls mew when she wants something :( so yea my feelings are hurt that she is not returning the calls. I told another friend the other day when she does finally get in touch with me she better have a realllllllllllly good reason for not returning any of my calls, and making me wonder if she was back in the hospital. If she has a good reason I will forgive her as usual, but if she does not I am not sure I will forgive her again. Do any of you have friends like this?
She moved recently and I do not have the new address yet so just stopping by to see if she was home would not work.
